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Sep 21, 2023Liked by Julie Hester

Julie, just reading this post has been truly lifegiving for me. So much to ponder and consider and ruminate on here...that's happening, and will continue. You've started some wheels turning in both my brain and my heart.

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Thanks for reading and responding, SarahLee. Prayers for your ruminating and pondering.

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Sep 20, 2023Liked by Julie Hester

Your strong, encouraging, brave words and voice bring me tears of sheer joy and sadness. Julie, your powerful , loving, and compassionate human soul and words speaks to my healing heart. I am so grateful, even after 15 years, that you chose to share this with us. So blessed to have found this comfort tool with you.

JoAnne

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Thank you so much, JoAnne. I am glad we get to write together sometimes!

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Thank you for this - vulnerable and brave... Sharing story has become such a huge part of the new identity I "think" i am creating. Knowing I am not the only one doing it, is such a comfort. Private, isolating, but freeing... thank you, friend!

-Betsy

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Betsy, I am glad to have companions like you on this writing-creating-sharing journey.

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Congrats on your Substack anniversary Julie. Thanks again for a powerful prompt.

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Thanks Mary. Hope you get a chance to write about it.

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"We are good stewards of the stories we tell by trusting them to people who have earned the right to hear them, and telling them when we are ready." I couldn't agree more, Julie. It's good to read this because I've always felt that maybe I was being snobbish in some sense by being selective about who I share some of my stories with.

I was very sorry to read about your son, and send you prayers.

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It's a fine balance, isn't it? As a writer we share and share, but some stories do need a smaller audience, at least until we are ready. Thanks for reading, and for the prayers, Terry!

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Thank you, Julie, for your clear-eyed and sacred honesty. It is gift, holy and true.

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Thank you, Shannan. Hope we can write together again soon.

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